Blowjob Techniques That Your Man Will Love

As you begin to pleasure him with your mouth and tongue, he’ll probably drop subtle hints as to what positions and blowjob techniques he enjoys. Pay attention to these, and you’ll soon be able to please him like the pros!

Most dudes love oral sex, and they’re happy to share their blow job tips. Here are a few tried and true blowjob techniques that will make him go crazy!

1. Deep Throating

Deep throating is a popular blowjob technique that’s often seen in porn and other sexual content. It involves a partner taking the tip or shaft of a penis or dildo all the way down their throat, and it’s generally very pleasant for the receiver. But it can be hard for the giver to perform and may trigger their gag reflex.

To overcome that, the giver must be able to find a comfortable position, practice relaxing techniques, and make sure there’s plenty of lubrication. It’s also helpful for the giver to determine how far down their throat they can go without triggering the gag reflex.

But even with all these tips, it can still be difficult to achieve and can take time to master. And that’s perfectly fine.

2. Sucking in Air

While many women use their hands to suck the head of a man’s penis, it can be even more pleasurable to stimulate other parts of the cock with your fingers or tongue as well. For instance, the perineum is a sensitive area near the scrotum that can be massaged by your fingertips. Some guys will love to have this touched while you give them a blow job.

One technique that can be a lot of fun is the tornado tongue, also known as the “Tornado Blowjob”. Simply hold his dick steady with your hand or fingers and begin to swirl your tongue around his head in circular, up & down, or back & forth motions.

Another thing to try is stroking the foreskin on his glans and shaft as you do this. This can feel amazing for uncut guys and is a great way to add more pleasure to the experience.

3. Fingering

Fingering is an intimate, sensual technique that can be a great warm-up or the main event. It involves stimulating the clitoris (or G-spot) with the thumb and index finger and rubbing it gently to increase pleasure and build arousal. Use lube to make it easier.

The clitoris has two to three times more nerve endings than the penis and is more sensitive to stimulation. It plays an important role in female orgasm. Almost all women need some clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm during intercourse.

Like any manual play, it’s important to check in with your partner and make sure they’re happy with what’s about to happen. It’s also a good idea to talk about how much pressure and duration they prefer before you start.

4. Slip Inside

Oral sex can be one of the biggest orgasms ever and it’s also really intimate. To ramp up the pleasure for your man, licking his head or clitoris is an easy and powerful blow job technique.

It’s especially effective when you lick the ridge where his head meets the shaft. This can trigger his gag reflex and lead to a deeper throating experience for both of you.

Another trick is to use a butt plug or prostate massager. This can double the pleasure for him as he tries to orgasm with his head. And don’t forget to work his testicles (or “balls”)! There are so many ways to stimulate these suckers, from fondling to tickling and licking them. Check out our Testicle Massage Guide for more ideas.

5. Use the Roof

The deep throat is a surefire blowjob techniques that will make any guy squirm with pleasure. If you’re feeling courageous, try taking him even deeper than the standard head position. Just remember to use your discretion, and only do this if you’re absolutely sure that it’s right for you.

This is a very sexually intense position, and you can increase the intensity by sucking a little harder, using the roof of your mouth for extra friction, and licking his frenulum as well. This is a great way to mix up the sensations and keep him from becoming desensitized to your advances. This is also a great way to create a sense of power dynamic between you. Getting him to cum can be an extremely powerful experience for both of you.